Do we feel glad when our children say No? Maybe when someone offers them a cookie or a coke right đ But when they say No to us⌠That can hurt. Leave us feeling angry, embarrassed, resentful. Exhausted, anyone? But⌠…
Collecting our children : Reducing frustration and increasing connection every day
I mentioned the idea of collecting our children in a recent post, 22 super simple ways to help our children feel loved. And it’s been on my mind a lot. Collecting our children is a chapter title from Hold On …
Two Thousand Kisses a Day by L.R. Knost. A book review
Sharing my thoughts on Two Thousand Kisses a Day : Gentle Parenting through the Ages and Stages by L.R. Knost. …family relationships are the steady and sure bedrock of secure connection and belonging that ground us and assure us that …
22 super simple ways to help our children feel loved
We all want our children to feel loved. And while there’s a place for grand declarations and glitzy celebrations, it’s the ordinary, everyday ways we show our love that matter most. Children need at least one person in their life …
What to do when you feel like a rubbish parent : 13 steps to dealing with parenting doubt
In a recent post I shared a list of 9 things to remember when we feel like a rubbish parent. And at the end of that post I promised to be back soon with a follow up – what to …
Feel like a rubbish parent? 9 things to remember when you doubt your parenting…
Do you feel like a rubbish parent? Scared of letting your children down? Convinced youâre not good enough, aching to clock out, curl up and wake up in a galaxy far, far away. Being a parent for over 20 years …
Respectful parenting : Healing the hurts from our own childhood
Healing the hurts from our childhood can be a messy business. So many feelings. But itâs okay to feel what we feel. Itâs what we do with those feelings that matters. Itâs okay to feel sad. To wonder why, why …
What to do if you’re worried about ‘screentime’
Fears about âscreentimeâ and how it might be affecting our children now and in the long term, are everywhere. From concerns about whether theyâre getting enough fresh air, exercise and physical contact with others, to the damage it might be …
What worries me about Fortnite (and 9 reasons not to limit childrenâs ‘screentime’)
My children play Fortnite. Or at least, theyâve all tried it. They mostly take it or leave it, except for one. My 14 year old son, heâs definitely a Fortnite fan. Â Fortnite has been hugely popular over the last …
The funny ideas people have about parenting…
âSheâs so polite, I bet her parents are super strictâ – my daughters boss when he discovered she was home-educated. And he wasnât the first to think so. On at least one other occasion and maybe more, people have assumed …